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The Shoes in My French Wardrobe and the Ones I No Longer Wear

There was a time when I might have happily penned a list titled “10 Essential Shoes for a Timeless French Wardrobe.” But today, I feel drawn to something more personal, a reflection on the shoes that live in my wardrobe: the pairs I wear often, the ones I’ve recently added, and those I no longer reach for.

As I shared in my previous piece on what French style looks like today (and how to make it yours), my interpretation of French style has evolved, shaped, in part, by the clean lines, soft tailoring, and subdued palette of Scandinavian fashion. There’s a minimalist, almost androgynous spirit to the way women dress in the North, and living in Amsterdam has only deepened that influence. I love mixing these pared-back silhouettes with classic Parisian pieces, effortless, subtly bohemian à la Isabel Marant, refined without ever feeling overdone.

It’s a kind of méli-mélo, as we say in French, a personal blend of shapes, textures, and influences gathered from different chapters of my life: Paris, London, Bordeaux, and now here, in Amsterdam. And truly, I admire the way women dress in this city. The style here is less about overt femininity, and more about function and form, elegant in its practicality, with an ease that never sacrifices intention. Clothes aren’t just ornamental; they give posture, presence, and a sense of confidence. They’re made to move, to work, and to say something, subtly, but clearly.

And so, from these cities and their women, a reflection on shoes emerges: those that carry me through the seasons and the in-between days, when I don’t quite know what to wear (which happens more often than you’d think). The shoes that ground an outfit, that travel well, that return with stories. And those we save for summer light or winter frost. In short, yes, today we’re talking about shoes. And I hope, by the end of this piece, you’ll have found your perfect pair. Or at the very least, one that feels just right :).


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1. The Timeless Ones

Looking closely at my wardrobe and daily habits, I’ve realized there are four types of shoes I reach for again and again, pairs that go with everything, slip on effortlessly, are comfortable, and, importantly, walkable (or bicyclable, if you live in Europe).

Ballet Flats

Not the traditional round-toe style with a little bow (as charming as it is, I find it a touch too classic), but more modern interpretations. This season, I chose a woven leather pair from Margaux, incredibly soft, with 5 mm of plush foam padding (I recommend sizing down by half). I also love Mary Jane silhouettes like the Demi Jane or the Claudia by Le Monde Beryl. And then there’s the mesh flat, unexpectedly refined, especially with a fresh red pedicure. The Marcy from Khaite is particularly beautiful. I wear all of these with straight-leg or wide-leg trousers, cropped or floor-length.

Loafers

To me, loafers are the ideal chic alternative to sneakers, they elevate a look without ever feeling too formal. If you’re looking to invest in a truly timeless pair, I’d recommend the Glossed-leather loafers or the Gomma leather loafers from Tod’s. I bought my own pair of Gommas years ago, and I still wear them regularly. The leather is exceptional, the craftsmanship impeccable, and the comfort unmatched. Yes, they’re an investment, but one I’ve never regretted. I love wearing mine with cropped jeans, but also with full-length wide-leg styles that just skim the top of the shoe.

Ankle Boots

These are my winter essentials. I own two pairs: one flat Chelsea style that’s incredibly comfortable, and one with a slightly higher shaft and a small heel. I like contrasting styles, for instance, this elegant pair from Sandro I’ve had my eye on for years (they’d look perfect with cropped straight-leg jeans), or the Estime boots from Carel. I own two pairs already: one in red patent leather and another in navy with a white toe. I love how they elongate the foot, they’re refined, feminine, and surprisingly easy to walk in.

Sneakers

These are, without a doubt, the shoes I wear most often year-round. Easy to wear, effortlessly versatile, and just the right touch of casual. I even love pairing them with tailored trousers for a slightly undone, nonchalant edge. My current favorites? The Nike Cortez (ultra-comfortable!), the Adidas Originals Samba OG, and the reissue of the iconic 1991 Gazelle designed in collaboration with + Sporty & Rich. Lately, I’ve been especially drawn to colorful suede sneakers, a little more elevated than classic leather. I wear them with everything from jeans to structured trousers.

2. The Seasonal Ones

For Summer

In summer, I find that a beautiful pair of flat leather sandals is truly the shoe of the season. They’re easy to wear with fluid linen trousers, wide-leg jeans (even the longer ones that fall just over the sandal), and even more tailored, office-friendly trousers with pleats. A simple piece, but endlessly versatile, always bringing une touche de chic to summer dressing.

For Winter

Last winter, I found the perfect pair of boots from Massimo Dutti: a refined equestrian style that has just returned in their new autumn collection. I love wearing them with slim or straight-leg trousers, ideally a more fitted cut that can be tucked into the boots. I’ll pair them with a long shirt or blouse, something fluid, layered under a blazer, a wool coat, or even a cape. On rainy or colder days, I slip on thick wool socks underneath for warmth and comfort. They’ve become a seasonal staple, both practical and chic.

4. The Ones I No Longer Wear (and the Trends I Never Embraced)

There are shoes I’ve worn in the past that no longer feel quite like me, and others I never truly embraced. Stilettos, for instance. I’ve never managed to find comfort or elegance in towering heels, even for evening. I much prefer the quiet sophistication of two-tone slingback pumps like these, or the retro charm of Carel’s Mary Janes. Chunky, sporty sandals, so popular a few summers ago, never found a place in my wardrobe either. I’ve always leaned toward more timeless shapes: slim, flat styles from Amanu, K. Jacques St. Tropez, or A.Emery.

I’ve also moved away from espadrilles. I used to love them, especially the classic wedge styles, but today I only consider the flat versions, and only for summer holidays. Then there are the trends that were simply never for me: clogs, UGGs (I much prefer a pair of Moon Boots when it snows in Amsterdam or in the Alps), and flip-flops, always a little too casual for my taste. That said, I’ll make an exception for something more refined, like the Deia in woven leather, effortless, but elevated ;).

Show Comments (20)
  1. Surprise!
    Americans ride bicycles too, especially in cities, like my New Orleans, Chicago, etc.
    Your shoe styles are wonderfully on point.

    1. Thank you very much, Gena! And thank you for your kind words on the shoe edit. I’m so glad it spoke to you 🙂

  2. I love all your shoe suggestions! Last Christmas I walked all the markets in Strasbourg in 2 different pairs of ankle boots. They worked with skirts and trousers. One a bit dressier (in suede) than the other (in leather). Here in NY and the suburbs where I live, my style tends toward French style and I wear it proudly. I’m an Anne Fontaine fan and have been for years. Keep all your advice and suggestions coming! Merci beaucoup!

    1. Ines, thank you so much! Your Strasbourg market strolls sound perfectly chic (two trusty ankle boots for skirts and trousers is exactly the spirit). I love that you bring French style to New York. I’ll keep the suggestions coming… merci beaucoup for being here <3

  3. Loving your site! Such chic options and helpful advice. Suggestion for a future article – which shoes to pair with different clothes, in particular, different styles of trousers/pants, and different lengths of skirt. I’ve heard something in the past that the longer the skirt, the higher the heels can be? So a mini-skirt is pretty much always paired with flats? Are flats ok with midi or long skirts? etc.

    1. Bonjour Lindsey, thank you very much for your comment! Yes, I would recommend wearing high-heels with long dresses/skirts or pants. Mini skirts are chicer worn with flats (sneakers, loafers, ballet flats). Flats are always the safest options and can be paired with any type of dress or pants 🙂

  4. I have a question, it’s probably personal preference but do people generally wear something inside ballet flats and loafers? When it’s really hot (I live in a warm climate) I find it a bit uncomfortable to go without socks.

    1. Bonjour Hannah! Thank you very much for your comment! Yes, I like to wear ultra low cut liner socks which are invisible with ballet flats and loafers. Also, during fall/winter I wear normal grey socks with loafers 🙂

  5. Hi!
    Great blog!
    Please help me with an outfit idea for nude loafers. I just got a pair that I love, from Jonak, but I dont know how to style it. Everywhere I see only black loafers…
    Thank you!

    1. Bonjour Aida! Thank you very much for your comment! Nude loafers are a great shoe option for the fall and spring seasons! You can pair them with jeans (dark or light blue will be great), black denim or pants as well as a little black dress. I think the nude color works well with grey, camel/beige, black, olive, and bronze. I hope that’ll help 🙂

  6. J’adore votre blog , c’est tres utile et interessant ! Selon vous, qu’est-ce qu’ une bonne hauteur de talon? Merci : )

    1. Bonjour Elina! Merci beaucoup pour votre commentaire. Personnellement, je pense qu’une bonne hauteur de talon se situe entre 3cm/1inch et 8cm/3inch (5cm/2inch étant l’idéal). Je marche beaucoup tout au long de la journée, j’ai donc besoin de chaussures à talons assez comfortable. Au delà de 8cm, je garde ces chaussures à talons pour une occasion spéciale ou pour une soirée/ un dîner. Voilà! En espérant que ma réponse puisse t’aider 🙂 xo

  7. Thank you so much for these articles! Have traveled the world frequently over the past five years and planning a trip to Paris Sept. 20-27, 2021! I can’t wait! Planning to come with one of my fashionista girlfriends and it would be so special to meet you! If you know of any “must experience” things related to Coco Chanel please write back to let me know! I’d like to go places she has been that only the locals know about and have access to, and not just the obvious tourist attractions. Now I can come in style and might even dressing like a French lady here in America! I love fashion and missed my calling but getting back into it at this time in my life!

    1. Bonjour Ema! Thank you very much for your comment! Lucky you, I hope you’ll have a wonderful time in Paris!
      Just in case you missed it, I’ve written a very detailed article on how to do Paris like a local, I hope it’ll help you! Also here are a few places to go if you love Coco Chanel:
      – The Chanel boutique 31 rue Cambon (obviously); Chanel’s flagship store where it all began in 1918
      – The Ritz Paris; where she lived for 34 years!
      – The Marché aux fleurs on the Île de la Cité (one of the oldest market in Paris)
      – The café Angelina on rue de Rivoli; one of Coco Chanel’s favorite cafés
      – The restaurant Le Grand Véfour; where Coco Chanel used to dine
      – Le théâtre des Champs-Elysées: Coco Chanel had created the costumes for the ballet Le Train Bleu
      – Le Grand Palais where all Chanel’s fashion shows happen every year.
      Et voilà! Have a great and safe trip to Paris 🙂 xo

  8. Love French fashion! Every time I go to Paris I notice I wear much prettier clothes.Thank you for posting these beautiful fashion pieces, for me to wear here in New York!

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